Planning is literally the only way we
ordinary humans can prepare for what the future will throw at us. A wise man
once said; “Make hay while the sun shines”, in fact, practically all cultures
have proverbs that indicates why planning is very important in life. The Igbo
tribe in Nigeria say; “A man should start looking for his black goat in
daytime”. This means a lot because even our forefathers understood the
importance of preparation.
When you don’t plan properly, you are
like a sheet of paper in a wind storm; the blustery weather will blow you
about; if you don’t plan your life, it will kick you around like that shit of
paper in the storm.
Therefore, I feel compelled to put in
writing the benefits of planning your life out. I am very aware that some
people love spontaneity and don’t want to live on a time table. However; you
surely want to be secured by a pension scheme for when you retire.
If you are wealthy enough, you might
want to set up a trust fund for your children. Life is fairly unpredictable and
if you aren’t getting younger, a life insurance policy would be considered.
Whatever the case, everybody is making plans without even knowing it, but how
do you make more intent and objective plans for your future?
1. Financial Security
Those jobs or contracts might not
always be there. It is very important to keep some money aside for the rainy
days, because trust me they will come. I want you to be honest with yourself,
if hypothetically something happened and you find yourself in a tight corner
financially; let’s assume you lost your job today. Would it be a situation of
feeding from hand to mouth for your family going forward or you have enough to
stay afloat till you get another job or revive your business? Whatever you
conclude within yourself, don’t lose hope or panic. Your situation is
definitely not the first one but to be on a safe side, you could start now to
begin saving up some money from your earnings no matter how small it is. One
day, it would come in very handy, trust me.
2. Time Management
When you plan and schedule properly,
you don’t make silly mistakes and make your loved ones believe you don’t love
them as much. You can plan your time by using the old school method of writing
notes and sticking them to your fridge, or you can use the more modern method
of setting notes and alarms on your phone.
Whatever you do, make sure you always
plan quality time with family. A wise man once said that family is everything
and there is no excuse for not providing time for them. As adults, it is normal
and only human of us to forget certain things, but there are various means to
set reminders on your smart phone for such a situation.
3. It Gives You More Control Over Your Life
I know I said this before but I feel
compelled to stress it. You will agree with me that if you don’t plan, every
morning would be a potential drama. You might get the dress drama, then no
water drama if you live in an apartment with neighbors, or you might have kids’
drama if you are married with children.
All these dramas are usually as a
result of lack of planning. What if you could plan your dressing for each day
of the week on a Sunday evening. You could even make it fun by inviting a loved
one to come help you pick out suitable clothes from your closet. This will save
you the hassle of having to wake up and plan an outfit before eight.
So, you need to prepare breakfast
early enough for your husband and kids before they go to work and school
respectively. First of all, you need to start making plans before hand,
preferably the day before. Once you are able to partially organize a meal for
your family the day before everybody has to be at various places early. You now
have two less things to worry about in the morning.
Having a plan to some degree gives
you control over your life. Even though you might not be the one controlling
the waves, you are at least the captain of your ship. You need to take control
of your life and the only way to do that is by planning ahead.
4. Risk Management
Life is all about taking risks. You can’t
say you have fully existed until you have lived on the edge a little. After a
man climbed Kilimanjaro, he claimed he had never felt so alive before. This was
very inspiring but I something came to my mind and I
couldn’t shove the thought away. This young man was just thirty five and had
two daughters; age seven and six. So, I pondered. If by chance a serious
accident occurs and this young man becomes incapacitated, what would become of
his wife and daughters? Then I decided
to check out various options his family could use to keep getting income to
support and train the children through college.
Life insurance policy is a great,
great plan if you are someone who loves to live on the edge. Nobody is asking
you to stop trying to climb the Mount Everest, or jump out of a plane with
parachutes or wander into the jungle on your own in search of the wonderful
feeling of having stared death in the eyes.
And while doing all that, have you
considered that anything could happen and its best to prepare for the worse.
Getting Life insurance shouldn’t seem like an awkward thing to do. Recently, I
was reading up on how a family can cope without the major breadwinner in the
family, I found out that most families that were left with life insurance
policies by their breadwinners end up being very stable financially moving
forward.
Then again it’s not only life
insurance policies, but there are various other insurance you can take to help
minimize the effects of a catastrophe.
5. It Gives You Motivation
Nothing gives more motivation than purpose,
and nothing gives more purpose than plans. When you have plans, you have
purpose and purpose is what motivates us to get up from bed on Monday mornings.
When you have plans to purchase a new car by the end of the year, you have
purpose and that purpose is what you are living for till you finally get that
car.
Making plans are a good way to stay
motivated in a world where there are very few things to be motivated about.
6. It Helps to Make Priorities Obvious
One of the reasons why relationships
fail is due to conflicting notions on what is supposed to be the priority.
However, when take your time to actually plan, you would be able to point out
what you see as a priority.
During the planning process, you will
get to notice priorities and place them above other options. This is the concept
of scale of preference; it is when you put some options above others based on
your need for them.
Let’s say you want to get a new
computer, however, your rent is about to expire and your landlord will be on
your neck once it does. I guess your house rent will be your first priority and
then maybe later you can start thinking about that new computer.
Generally, planning will set your
priorities straight. No matter how goofy it may seem, you need to write down
some of the stuffs you have to do before a certain period of time then scale
them according to their importance. The less important tasks should go down on
the list, and the all more important tasks should go up.
Author Bio
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Abimbola Joseph is a
creative content developer at Explicit Success who derives pleasure in
encouraging individuals to be the best they can be in all relevant facets of
life. She believes that we all have a better version of ourselves which can be
leveraged to impact others and make the world a better place. You can also
connect with her on Instagram @abimbolajoe.
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